It is a hard time choosing the course, especially for the ones like me who do not know what they are really interested in the most. Everything seem OK to me. I feel very bad every time thinking of the future, and I am afraid of making choices, because I always think: What if I eventually found that I am not interested in this way and what if I found another way that I am more interested in, could I go back and take another way? I am not a brave and adventured man in life.
I think it is all because I have no certain aims in life. Before, I always thought I have aim, which is to live a happy live, on matter succeed or not in career or other material aspects, for happiness is only the matter of mind. That’s why I concentrated too much in my own soul but not the outside world. That made me pessimistic and also unhappy. And now, I think happiness should not and cannot be a certain aim. It will not come when you search everywhere in your mind but when you forget it and walk you way, it will come naturally.
I need certain aims but before I get the very far and big one, it is good to have some near and small one, just like “I must get A in this subject or I must run 10km in 40min.” I think these kinds of certain aims are small but can make our lives more meaningful. What is more, it is better for me to become less strict about life. There is no perfect way in life and in most of the time, we cannot decide our way totally. The most important thing, I think, is to make the best of the ways in front of us, no matter whether they are chosen by us or just appear by chance, and never be afraid of making choices when it is necessary, every way have challenges and sweets.
I will keep telling myself all above.
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We must never be afraid of making choices. Choices are good at the time they are made, with all the information you have at hand. Once we have made our choice throw out the other options. If we don't we may go back 'if only I had chosen this...' It will not help, actually it will be disastrous to your well being. Sometimes we do not have a choice, e.g. blog writing, but if you chose to like it as this gives you free space to write whatever you want, without anyone tutor correcting you, you will see its value, blogs aloow you to be you, to write your true self. Enjoy blogs.
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