April 3, 2009

Some Impressions(YSM)

It is said that a child can never really grow up until he or she is away from home. Surely, when I was at home, my parents almost cared about everything that happened on me. They helped to arrange my life in order. It is their considerate care that made my childhood so light-hearted.

Every morning, in order to ensure that I could have a longer sleep, mom would get up early to prepare breakfast for me, and then dad would drove me to school. Every day, they left no means untried to enrich my dinner, thus, there were always dishes I like and are of high nutrition waiting for me when I came back home. In case that I would feel lonely studying late until midnight, mom would always sit beside silently accompanying me. Every time when I came across difficulty, they would just be there to pull me out of the dilemma; every time when I lost my heart and was about to give up, they would stretch out their warm hands and continue the journal together with me; every time when I was tied of studying, they would guide me with an understand attitude…. It is universally acknowledged that children can never truly understand their parents until they themselves become parents.

Before we graduated from high school, our teacher told us, when we leave home, we should never report bad news, but good news to home. Because perhaps it is only a simple sentence “I fell ill”, they would spend many days sleepless and worried about us day and night. We may think parents are garrulous, reminding us again and again to watch out when crossing a road, be careful about our wallet, and concentrate during class, like treating a small child... However, in fact, in their eyes, no matter how old we are, we are always their little children. They don’t really care how much we will repay them when we grow up; they don’t expect us to contribute to the family; they simply hope that we will be happy and healthy all the way along. They say that we are their hope, the continuation of their life. They force us to study, not because if we fail the exam they will lose face, but they hope that good marks can be a guarantee for our future career. After all, the journal of life is long and tough, and they can’t always walk by our side prepared to help us up whenever we fall down.

I have read these words in a book “Actually, every mother is an angel, but when she gives birth to a baby, she just silently hides all her brilliance, and is willing to become an ordinary but great mother”. Parents sacrifice their youth and vigor to look after us. They would rather bear hardships themselves, than let their children suffer.

You may never know when it is that they have their first grey hair; you may never know when it is wrinkles cover their once beautiful face; you may never know how many times they have cried for you; you may never know how much they love you…

Think of your dear parents, their smiles, their warm hands, and their considerate care. Please do not be sparing of the words “I love you”. Right now, please pick up you phone and call back home, telling them, you love them too.

6 comments:

  1. the force to grow up from the outworld maybe too strong for us to accept and we need time.i can see from the content from our blogs as many of us are talking about nostalgia, which indicates that it is time to do waht we should do.

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  2. It is fairly enjoyable and comfortable to read your affecting blog under the piano piece "Childhood".
    I've no idea how you came up with this topic, but I have to say that I got, more or less, touched after finishing reading your passage. It's true that we often ignore our parents' caring and thought, and in some worse case, we take it for granted. Many of us might have felt that parents are boresome at a time.
    In our parents' eyes, we are, and will always be, children even if we reach our 30s or how much we achieve. Their ultimate goal is to see to our happiness and health.
    Thank you, Cindy, for digging the deep feeling of ours.

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  3. Come and have a look. I think so, but to be growing up may be a wonderful thing. You can enjoy the process to be mature, come on!

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  4. Parents are our gods who protect and lead us. I think your blog is touching and let me miss my parents. So when i come back to China this July, I will talk with them and say thanks to them from the bottom of my heart.

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  5. It always gives us great courage and strength when we think of the people who stand beside us, our family and friends. They are there to give us support, to watch us grow and find our place out in the world.

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  6. It is such a touching article that I was deeply touched with some tears in my eyes. We owe to nobody but our parents. It is our parents who give birth to us. It is our parents who teach us how to walk and speak. It is our parents who encourage us move forward. I still remember each time I make a phone call to them they will always ask me how I am going. I still remember each time I make a phone call to them they will ask me whether I am healthy. Each time I make a phone call to them they will ask us whether I am happy. That is their love simple but infinite and deeply. It will never be too much for us to repay them ,their great love.

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